errors: fix incorrect argument label for array elements

[kimtaejin3]

This PR fixes array elements being incorrectly classified as "argument" in ERR_INVALID_ARG_TYPE and
ERR_INVALID_ARG_VALUE error messages.

for example:

Buffer.concat([1]);     

Before:
The "list[0]" argument must be an instance of Buffer or Uint8Array.

After:
The "list[0]" property must be an instance of Buffer or Uint8Array.

Updated related test expectations in:

• test-buffer-concat.js
• test-diff.js
• test-dns-setservers-type-check.js
• test-process-setgroups.js
• test-tls-set-default-ca-certificates-error.js

[codecov]

Codecov Report

✅ All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests.
✅ Project coverage is 89.68%. Comparing base (f6464c5) to head (3a5b9f5).

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main   #61599      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   89.76%   89.68%   -0.09%     
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  Files         673      673              
  Lines      203944   203927      -17     
  Branches    39191    39131      -60     
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- Hits       183080   182897     -183     
- Misses      13194    13341     +147     
- Partials     7670     7689      +19     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
lib/internal/errors.js	97.62% <100.00%> (+<0.01%)	⬆️

... and 36 files with indirect coverage changes

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