upgrade vllm version to v0.13.0

[JenniferWang]

Differential Revision: D89667182

Test plan:

(forge-c) [jiyue@devgpu004.rva5 ~/fbsource/fbcode/pytorch/torchforge (arcpatch-D89568072)]$ pip list | grep vllm
vllm                              0.13.0
(forge-c) [jiyue@devgpu004.rva5 ~/fbsource/fbcode/pytorch/torchforge (arcpatch-D89568072)]$  pytest -v tests/integration_tests/test_vllm_policy_correctness.py
=============================== test session starts ===============================
platform linux -- Python 3.12.12, pytest-9.0.2, pluggy-1.6.0 -- /home/jiyue/.conda/envs/forge-c/bin/python3.12
cachedir: .pytest_cache
rootdir: /data/users/jiyue/fbsource/fbcode/pytorch/torchforge
configfile: pyproject.toml
plugins: typeguard-4.4.4, anyio-4.12.0, timeout-2.4.0, cov-7.0.0, asyncio-1.3.0
asyncio: mode=Mode.STRICT, debug=False, asyncio_default_fixture_loop_scope=None, asyncio_default_test_loop_scope=function
collected 2 items                                                                 

tests/integration_tests/test_vllm_policy_correctness.py::test_same_output PASSED [ 50%]
tests/integration_tests/test_vllm_policy_correctness.py::test_cache_usage PASSED [100%]

================================ warnings summary =================================
<frozen importlib._bootstrap>:488
  <frozen importlib._bootstrap>:488: DeprecationWarning: builtin type SwigPyPacked has no __module__ attribute

<frozen importlib._bootstrap>:488
  <frozen importlib._bootstrap>:488: DeprecationWarning: builtin type SwigPyObject has no __module__ attribute

tests/integration_tests/test_vllm_policy_correctness.py::test_same_output
tests/integration_tests/test_vllm_policy_correctness.py::test_cache_usage
  /home/jiyue/.conda/envs/forge-c/lib/python3.12/multiprocessing/popen_fork.py:66: DeprecationWarning: This process (pid=1854140) is multi-threaded, use of fork() may lead to deadlocks in the child.
    self.pid = os.fork()

tests/integration_tests/test_vllm_policy_correctness.py::test_same_output
tests/integration_tests/test_vllm_policy_correctness.py::test_cache_usage
  /data/users/jiyue/fbsource/fbcode/pytorch/torchforge/src/forge/controller/provisioner.py:384: DeprecationWarning: setup_env_for_distributed is deprecated and will be removed in monarch 0.3.0. Use monarch.spmd.setup_torch_elastic_env instead.
    await setup_env_for_distributed(

-- Docs: https://docs.pytest.org/en/stable/how-to/capture-warnings.html
==================== 2 passed, 6 warnings in 66.41s (0:01:06) =====================
sys:1: DeprecationWarning: builtin type swigvarlink has no __module__ attribute

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