Fix SQLite adapter with GroupedRecords

[yunzheng]

This PR ensures that we don't use record.__slots__ but rather rdict.keys() for creating the sqlite table. Small regression test is included.

Also fixes some other small issues I encountered with GroupedRecord class, mainly by renaming the class variables to dunder variables.

fixes #215

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 84.21053% with 3 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 84.23%. Comparing base (1ab6b54) to head (1485a86).
⚠️ Report is 1 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
flow/record/base.py	85.71%	2 Missing ⚠️
flow/record/selector.py	0.00%	1 Missing ⚠️

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[skepppy]

Minor comment, but looks good to me otherwise