feat: support passing dynamicgo's parsing option

[AsterDY]

What type of PR is this?

Check the PR title.

• This PR title match the format: <type>(optional scope): <description>
• The description of this PR title is user-oriented and clear enough for others to understand.
• Attach the PR updating the user documentation if the current PR requires user awareness at the usage level. User docs repo

(Optional) Translate the PR title into Chinese.

(Optional) More detailed description for this PR(en: English/zh: Chinese).

en: support passing dynamicgo's IDL option by ProviderOption.DynamicgoOptions
zh(optional):

(Optional) Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

(optional) The PR that updates user documentation:

[codecov]

Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 85.18519% with 4 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 61.35%. Comparing base (bfa27f3) to head (a020dcd).
⚠️ Report is 4 commits behind head on main.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
pkg/generic/thriftidl_provider.go	82.60%	1 Missing and 3 partials ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##             main    #1878      +/-   ##
==========================================
- Coverage   61.37%   61.35%   -0.03%     
==========================================
  Files         388      388              
  Lines       35063    29857    -5206     
==========================================
- Hits        21521    18319    -3202     
+ Misses      12247    10241    -2006     
- Partials     1295     1297       +2     

Flag	Coverage Δ
integration	51.77% <7.40%> (+1.26%)	⬆️
unit	51.60% <85.18%> (-0.04%)	⬇️

Flags with carried forward coverage won't be shown. Click here to find out more.

☔ View full report in Codecov by Sentry.
📢 Have feedback on the report? Share it here.

🚀 New features to boost your workflow:

• ❄️ Test Analytics: Detect flaky tests, report on failures, and find test suite problems.