[GLUTEN-10903][VL] Build cudf always

[jinchengchenghh]

Because the base image apache/gluten:centos-9-jdk8-cudf is updated every week while cudf maybe updated in place, so we need to build cudf every time to avoid API compatibility.

Related issue: #10903

Fixes: #11693

[jinchengchenghh]

Because the old cudf exists in Docker image apache/gluten:centos-9-jdk8-cudf directory /usr/local/include/cudf, so velox does not build cudf in the expected path, so the build failed, I'm verifying if the build Dockerfile can be successful.

[jinchengchenghh]

After verified successfully, I will re-trigger Docker image push Actions

[jinchengchenghh]

I have verified with this Dockerfile

FROM ghcr.io/facebookincubator/velox-dev:adapters
ENV CUDA_ARCHITECTURES=70
ENV LD_LIBRARY_PATH=/opt/gluten/ep/build-velox/build/velox_ep/_build/release/_deps/curl-build/lib:$LD_LIBRARY_PATH


RUN yum install -y sudo patch perl && \
    dnf remove -y cuda-toolkit-12* && dnf install -y cuda-toolkit-13-1; \
    dnf autoremove -y && dnf clean all; \
    rm -rf /opt/rh/gcc-toolset-12 && ln -s /opt/rh/gcc-toolset-14 /opt/rh/gcc-toolset-12; \
    ln -sf /usr/local/bin/cmake /usr/bin && \
    git clone --depth=1 https://github.com/apache/incubator-gluten /opt/gluten && \
    cd /opt/gluten && \
    git config --global user.email "you@example.com" && \
    git config --global user.name "Your Name" && \
    git fetch origin pull/11691/head && \
    git cherry-pick 03f7e9647d0f0a68acc79d6131aded1e7a4914d0 && \
    source /opt/rh/gcc-toolset-14/enable && \
    bash ./dev/buildbundle-veloxbe.sh --run_setup_script=OFF --build_arrow=ON --spark_version=3.4 --build_tests=ON --build_benchmarks=ON --enable_gpu=ON && \
    rm -rf /opt/gluten && \
    rm -rf /root/.cache/ccache

[zhouyuan]

@jinchengchenghh The GPU CI build job failed
https://github.com/apache/incubator-gluten/actions/runs/22624186452/job/65556430329?pr=11691