[GLUTEN-11678][VL] Native validation should check CrossRelNode's expression

[wecharyu]

What changes are proposed in this pull request?

Check the CrossRelNode's expression, fallback it if experssion is not supported.
Fix #11678.

How was this patch tested?

Add unit test.

Was this patch authored or co-authored using generative AI tooling?

No.

[jinchengchenghh]

Please resolve the failed test

- get correct fallback reason on nodes without logicalLink
- fallback when nested loop join has unsupported expression *** FAILED ***
  fallbackReasons.forall(((x$6: String) => x$6.contains("regexp_extract due to Pattern (?<="))) was false (FallbackSuite.scala:392)
11:23:43.481 WARN org.apache.gluten.execution.FallbackSuite: 

[wecharyu]

Addressed failed test, please take a look again. @jinchengchenghh