siw is the initiator (1.1.1.2)
16:39:36.550313 1.1.1.2.55097 > 1.1.1.1.3333: P 1:25(24) ack 1 win 229 [mpa: start-req C pdlen 4 mpav2: enhanced - ird 1 ord 2 peer2peer write RTR read RTR] (DF)
16:39:36.550801 1.1.1.1.3333 > 1.1.1.2.55097: P 1:25(24) ack 25 win 32768 [mpa: start-rep C pdlen 4 mpav2: enhanced - ird 2 ord 1 peer2peer read RTR] (DF)
16:39:36.550858 1.1.1.2.55097 > 1.1.1.1.3333: P 25:45(20) ack 25 win 229 [mpa: ulplen 14 ddp: v1 TL stag 0 to 0 rdmap: WRITE ] (DF)
16:39:36.551106 1.1.1.1.3333 > 1.1.1.2.55097: P 25:53(28) ack 45 win 32768 [mpa: ulplen 22 ddp: v1 UL inv_stag 0 qn 2 msn 1 mo 0 rdmap: TERM layertype 00 ecode 00 hdrct 00 ] (DF)