qdone: add better batch error handling

[ryanwitt]

This must solve the issues seen in sentry here: https://github.com/suredone/suredone/issues/9494

One way we could do this is:

• Automatically retry messages with no senderFault in new batches
• Take senderFault errors and pair them with their message, then send this to sentry, or perhaps rewrite the error message to include this
• Or we could log failed messages in a queue and alert on it