Merge bitcoin/bitcoin#34025: net: Waste less time in socket handling #80

Job	Run time
determine runners	3s
Windows native, fuzz, VS 2022	45m 52s
Windows native, VS 2022	1h 33m 3s
macOS native, fuzz	19m 3s
macOS native	36m 54s
test max 6 ancestor commits	0s
lint	5m 10s
Windows-cross to x86_64, ucrt	1h 2m 41s
Windows-cross to x86_64, msvcrt	53m 44s
TSan	1h 13m 51s
fuzzer,address,undefined,integer	2h 59m 20s
macOS-cross to arm64	52m 46s
tidy	1h 34m 44s
32 bit ARM	41m 10s
previous releases	1h 6m 26s
No wallet	56m 56s
i686, no IPC	1h 25m 33s
Alpine (musl)	1h 36m 17s
Valgrind, fuzz	4h 0m 17s
MSan, fuzz	2h 5m 41s
MSan	1h 32m 5s
macOS-cross to x86_64	53m 32s
ASan + LSan + UBSan + integer	1h 26m 32s
Windows, msvcrt, test cross-built	46m 31s
Windows, ucrt, test cross-built	49m 39s
	1d 5h 17m 50s

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