Remove incoming stream timeout?

[achingbrain]

This module has an incomingStreamTimeout option that closes an incoming stream if data isn't received after that many ms.

It uses an abortable-source which has been shown to be a performance bottleneck.

Instead maybe we cold rely on the underlying connection's timeout instead?

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