`get_array_data_memory_size` does not return correct results for listarray slices

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arrow-rs propagates the slice for a StructArray on slice(): https://docs.rs/arrow-array/57.2.0/src/arrow_array/array/struct_array.rs.html#337

It doesn't do this for list arrays: https://docs.rs/arrow-array/57.2.0/src/arrow_array/array/list_array.rs.html#396 ...and possibly not for some other types like dictionaries, list views, or run-end-encoded

See this comment #515 (comment) and the failing test case: https://github.com/apache/sedona-db/pull/515/files#diff-5fdc254a5ea41059acecb8588e449aae6b354d4886deecbe3b2ffec3628c4b06R257-R290