[VL] Broadcast BHJ hash table

[FelixYBW]

Description

Currently we broadcast small table and build hashtable in every task. The improvement is to build hash table on driver and broadcast to task thread.

[FelixYBW]

A PoC: #8931

Doc: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1upEby9aJnBcMKul7HS5agSr1zwFR63Iq4QL1nYxuFvU/edit?tab=t.0#heading=h.s1185eumct0z

Velox Issue: facebookincubator/velox#12107