Add `PrimitiveArray` mut-or-clone helpers #17124

Job	Run time
Pyarrow C Data Interface (stable, 15)	1m 26s
Pyarrow C Data Interface (stable, 17)	1m 25s
Pyarrow C Data Interface (stable, 16)	1m 35s
Archery test With other arrows	19m 43s
	24m 9s

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